I don't think it's necessary to flaunt your sexual preference whether straight or gay. Maybe it's just my ignorance on this but I do know that I don't judge a person on their sexuality. It's the personality that counts. I know gays who are evil, manipulative and liars and who are hateful racists and I wouldn't want my kids - male or female around them. I also know gays who are honest, hard working and treat people fairly and I would trust my kids - males and females around them. So it's not the sexual preferences - it's the other part of what matters - how they treat others and themselves. However as far as flaunting it or making a declaration - I don't think it's necessary. I am straight but don't throw it in peoples faces!
Posted by Leo on November 24, 2005 09:54 AM
Yeah Leo, it's your ignorance talking.
Let's pretend for a moment that everyone was gay and that you are straight. We all assume you're gay. We're always asking you about your husband or boyfriend or if you've met any nice guys lately. Please note that if you tell us the truth that we may decide to ostracize you entirely, kick you out of our church, disown you from our family... Meanwhile, in your own little straight world you know young straight teens who are committing suicide because they can't take being all alone and dealing with the stigma of being straight anymore. And then you go to your favorite straight website and even there the gay assholes show up to tell you how you need to think and be.
On another hand, answer these questions for yourself.
1. What do you think has caused you to be heterosexual?
2. When and how did you first decide you were a heterosexual?
3. Is it possible your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of people of the same sex?
4. If you've never slept with a person of the same sex, how do you know you wouldn't prefer it?
5. Isn't it possible your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?
6. Isn't it possible that all you need is a good gay lover?
7. If heterosexuality is normal, why are a disproportionate number of mental patients heterosexual?
8. To whom have you disclosed your heterosexual tendencies? How did they react?
9. Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex? Why are they so promiscuous?
10. Do heterosexuals hate and/or distrust others of their own sex? Is that what makes them heterosexual?
11. If you were to have children, would you want them to be heterosexual knowing the problems they'd face?
12. Your heterosexuality doesn't offend me as long as you don't try to force it on me. Why do you feel compelled to seduce others into your sexual orientation?
13. The great majority of child molesters are heterosexuals. Do you really consider it safe to expose your children to heterosexual teachers?
14. Why do you insist on being so obvious, and making a public spectacle of your heterosexuality? Can't you just be who you are and keep it quiet?
15. How can you ever hope to become a whole person if you limit yourself to a compulsive, exclusively heterosexual lifestyle, and remain unwilling to explore and develop your homosexual potential?
16. Heterosexuals are noted for assigning themselves and each other to narrowly restricted, stereotyped sex-roles. Why do you cling to such unhealthy role playing?
17. Even with all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiralling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?
18. How could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual like you, considering the menace of overpopulation?
19. There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Techniques have been developed that could help you change if you really wanted to. Have you considered trying psychotherapy or even aversion therapy?
21. Could you really trust a heterosexual therapist/counsellor to be objective and unbiased? Don't you fear he/she might be inclined to influence you in the direction of his/her own preferences?
22. How can you enjoy a full, satisfying sexual experience or deep emotional rapport with a person of the opposite sex when the differences are so vast? How can a man understand what pleases a woman, or vice-versa?
Posted by Rita on November 25, 2005 10:55 AM
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Minha nossa senhora, as coisas mais estupidas que se dizem.Vejo a ignorância da senhora quando diz que não percebe a insistência de se falar na homossexualidade ou das pessoas a assumirem. Agora, custa-me mais a resposta, pois a estupidez dos argumentos é atroz. População a mais? Ser heteressexual porque não se experimentou outras coisas? Ai agora é-se homossexual só porque se experimentou? Um homem não pode ter uma relação saudável com uma mulher? A maioria dos pedófilos são heterossexuais? Foda-se, isto parece uma acusação dos 'normais' mas ao contrário. Poupem-me. Percebo que ainda se sofre por ser homossexual, e muito. Mas não entendo de maneira nenhuma este tipo de argumentos. Porque isto é porem-se no mesmissimo nível de estupidez de quem os acusa. Há pessoas, boas e más. Ponto final.
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